Now pull back from the spread a bit. Let yourself just look at the reading visually. Which grouping between P1 and P2 appeals to you the most? Who feels right?
I tend to guide my clients to look for things that resonate with them on a gut level in this spread. It isn’t about me picking their lover for them so much as it is giving them insight. A recent client left a comment on my testimonial page about this reading. They said, “The reading was interesting and thought-provoking, I think on quite a profound level but I haven’t processed it all yet. ... I’m looking at my situation differently though of course some of it I already knew.”
And that was the best compliment of all. Of course you already know the answers. Tarot is simply another way of accessing Higher Self. To paraphrase Toni Gilbert, you know it’s Higher Self when it’s good news because Higher Self really likes you. What an awesome message, right?
I invite you to do this Torn Between Two Lovers spread for yourself if you have need of it. You can also tweak it to be Torn Between Two Really Great Job Offers (although that title’s a bit long, what?). The key to the spread is that you look at it from a distance as well as up close. Let your Higher Self have a hand in the choice.
Arwen began reading the Tarot in 1980 when a friend handed her the Thoth deck. She didn’t really like the Thoth deck then (her opinion has changed since) so moved on to the Herbal Tarot which she still has in her collection of Tarot decks.
Her fascination with this introspective divination system grew as did her bookstore bill. She began to read for friends to see if her readings were correct. What she learned surprised her and her friends as she began to open up on psychic levels as well as intuitive. Her friends began referring their friends to her and Arwen finally began to read for people she didn’t know.
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