Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/March 2018 Aspire Mag Full Issue: Inner Prospe | Page 51

Symptom #5 FEELING STUCK Do you just wish things were different in your life but don’t know how to change them? Often when we spend our time caring for everyone in our lives except ourselves, we end up stuck in a habit of self-neglect that leads to feeling stuck in an overall way. When we feel stuck, we feel hopeless, which reinforces all the other symptoms of self-neglect. The most effective way to get unstuck is to move. SELF-NURTURING CURE: Connect with Nature Being in nature, walking on the beach or taking a stroll outside your office or home can transform your perspective instantly. Connecting with nature rejuvenates like nothing else and gets you in touch with the profound beauty all around you. Nature is an excellent teacher about process, patience, and transformation and can inspire us into action. compassionate to yourself and treating yourself like a dear friend. Choose to use kind and loving words when you talk to yourself and create a positive affirmation or mantra to use whenever you find yourself being critical or judgmental. Being kind to ourselves is essential to listening to the small voice within telling us what is important and what is not, so cultivate self- compassion every day. Learning to identify your “red flags” or symptoms of self-neglect helps you address your self-nurturing needs more quickly and prevents more overwhelm, stress, and exhaustion. You have the power to transform your symptoms of self-neglect with self- nurturing cures to feel more empowered and confident in your life. The beauty of self-nurturing is the ripple effects created in your life improving your health, wealth and all your relationships. The more filled up you are the more you will be able to give authentically of your heart and the better you will feel in the process. May you embrace these self-nurturing cures as you transform your habit of self- neglect, nurturing peace in the world from the inside out! Read Online! Kelley Grimes, MSW - Kelley Grimes, MSW, is a counselor, speaker,international bestselling author and self-nurturing expert. She is passionate about empowering overwhelmed and exhausted individuals to live with more peace, joy, and meaning through the practice of self-nurturing. Kelley also provides professional and leadership development to organizations dedicated to making the world a better place. She is married to an artist, has two empowered daughters, and loves singing with a small women’s group. Learn more at www.CultivatingPeaceandJoy.com and download your free Self-Nurturing Mobile App. 51