Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/March 2018 Aspire Mag Full Issue: Inner Prospe | Page 50

impairs our ability to listen to the small voice within that tells us what is important and what is not. As a result, we can get hooked by drama in our lives, which usually causes more stress and overwhelm. Instead, try the following self-nurturing cure: nurture ourselves so we can avoid getting sick. Try the next self-nurturing cure to fend off this symptom. SELF-NURTURING CURE: Sleep provides mental and physical renewal, increased energy and improved mood. Getting enough sleep is vital for our memory, quality of life, clarity of thinking, creativity, and even helps us live longer. Choosing to rest supports our physical, mental and brain health and is essential to prevent illness. Give yourself permission to rest not only when you are sick but on a daily basis to nurture yourself. Ground Yourself in Gratitude Regularly writing down and acknowledging all we are grateful for transforms our difficulties into lessons and decreases our stress and overwhelm. When we cultivate a practice of gratitude, we are able to view challenging situations as opportunities to learn and grow. Focusing on our blessings makes the drama fade away and highlights what is really important in our lives. Symptom #3 ILLNESS Do you get sick easily, feel exhausted much of the time, or struggle feeling anxious or depressed? Our habit of self-neglect consistently undermines our physical and mental health and leaves us vulnerable to becoming ill. Sometimes we wait to care for ourselves until we are forced to as a result of being sick. Let’s choose instead to regularly 50 SELF-NURTURING CURE: Choose to Rest Symptom #4 NEGATIVE SELF-TALK Do you notice when you begin judging and criticizing yourself or does your negative self-talk sneak up on you? Often when we are overwhelmed and exhausted our negative self-talk becomes louder and more consistent. When we are overwhelmed we often believe that we can’t do anything well or that we are not good enough and we may criticize and judge ourselves more as a result. Our negative self-talk is a powerful symptom of our habit of self-neglect and can be cured by the following self-nurturing practice: SELF-NURTURING CURE: Be Kind to Yourself You have the power to interrupt your negative self-talk by being www.AspireMAG.net | February / March 2018