Aspire Magazine: Inspiration for a Woman's Soul.(TM) Feb/March 2018 Aspire Mag Full Issue: Inner Prospe | Page 39

I want to share some difficult lessons I
learned the hard way. Usually that’s how
I get the message. Admittedly it could be
right under my nose but I don’t pay attention
until it hits me on the head.
1
 You attract everything
into your life—the good,
the bad and the ugly.
If you look deeply into your most recent
challenge, there will be pieces that you can
pull together. Parts that you created may
have caused someone else’s participation
but the root cause will come back to you.
Ever notice that in all your conflicts there
is one common denominator? You! I know
it is upsetting but it is also a wakeup call.
You have more control on what happens
in your life than you think. You are not a
victim You can choose to be the observer
2
Any scene is a temporary
image on the screen-it
doesn’t make up the
whole freaking movie.
However, I see clients that allow one bad thing
takeover their lives. They keep replaying
the same scene over and over again. Every
time reliving the pain of loss, betrayal and
heartache. They are so identified with their
pain they don’t know how to move forward.
Life requires that you change the scene, the
cast of characters. Nothing is permanent in
your life. Everything is subject to change.
Why not use the power of change to work
for you?
Write a new script, it’s like a vision board.
You can pick and choose what you want
in the new version. Make it as detailed as
possible. Put tons of emotion into it. Make it
exciting! Your creating new images for your
big screen.
It’s so easy to forget how powerful you really
are. People that experience great success
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LIFE REQUIRES THAT
YOU CHANGE THE
SCENE, THE CAST OF
CHARACTERS. NOTHING
IS PERMANENT IN YOUR
LIFE. EVERYTHING IS
SUBJECT TO CHANGE.
of your experience or you can choose to be
the director of your screen play. And you,
dearie, it stops you in your tracks. You drop
to your knees-you feel paralyzed. My own
example is the implosion of my marriage. I
was curled up in a ball. The most common
response is for you to hit the pause button.
The movie stops and you are stuck in a
gut wrenching scene. What if you kept the
movie running, slowly but moving forward.
You would have a better chance of directing
the outcome that you want. You are taking
action rather than sitting back and letting
someone else run the show.