ARTA Wellness Diabetes Volume | Page 10

Early Detection: “Denialbetes” Denial Most people experience denial when they are first diagnosed with diabetes. “I don’t believe it. There must be some mistake,” refusing to admit the reality of their diagnosis. 4 That first reaction is so common that some doctors think it’s a first step in accepting the diagnosis. However, it is important not to self-sabotage your health by denying your diabetes. Long-term denial stops you from learning what you need to know and do to be healthy. Why Deny? Denial can serve a purpose. It can keep you from getting overwhelmed and depressed. It lets you accept news little by little when you are ready. It also lets your family and friends pretend that nothing is really wrong. Denial can return later on because, at times, it can seem easier than managing your health. Denying that your diabetes is serious lets you avoid self-care. It shields you from the fact that diabetes is a lifelong, chronic illness, which if left untreated can result in complications. Doctors who do not specialize in diabetes care may fuel your denial. They may talk about a “mild” case of diabetes or say there is “just a touch of sugar” in your blood. Though well- meaning, these terms send the wrong message —that your diabetes is not serious enough to hurt you. 6