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BETTER LIVES Caring for the carers Being a carer can feel like a full-time job, and very often it is. However, Ealing Council offers people a flexible way of arranging their care and support, including time away from caring duties. “W ith direct payments, we have freedom and more choice,” said Frederick Avella, the father of Henry – who has Down’s Syndrome. Through ‘direct payments’, the council gives money directly to local people to pay for their agreed care needs. Doing it this way means they have more control over choosing the services that work best for them. It suits people who might want to arrange their care in a more personalised way, instead of solely being reliant on services the council offers. The council’s Ealing Direct service provides information, advice and support in planning and monitoring the arrangements. ‘IT HAS CHANGED HENRY’S LIFE’ Henry, 48, uses his direct payments to pay for weekends of respite care so that his parents can have a break. It also pays for a personal carer for 11 weekends a year, who often takes him out on day trips. In addition, Henry spends some of the money on theatre classes. Frederick said: “It has changed Henry’s life. Not only has it given him satisfaction and self-fulfilment, he always has something to look forward to.” ‘MAKES ME THINK ABOUT MY OWN HEALTH’ With support from the council’s Ealing Direct service, Julia, 49, has been able to find some time for herself despite caring for her mother. Julia, who lives in Northolt, said: “My caring duties have stopped me from working full time and that has had an impact on me financially and socially. “The council has been really good. I had a carer’s assessment because I was isolated, and I also had potential health issues. “My mum goes to a day centre three times a week. She gets her hair done on a Monday and she has dinner there as well. It’s a godsend for her. On those days I can go to the gym and do what I want to do. Going to the gym takes my mind off caring and it makes me think about myself and my own health.” Read Henry’s full story at ealingnewsextra.co.uk/ features/selecting-care and read Julia’s full story at ealingnewsextra.co.uk/ features/caring-for-the-carers MORE INFO If you have care needs, the Social Care Advice and Referral Centre can help you find the best options to enable you to stay independent: n Call 020 8825 8000 n Email sscallcentre@ealing,gov.uk around ealing    Summer 2019 27