Aries Magazine December 2013 / January 2014 Issue | Page 110

The guy who cheated on you: There is no excuse for a guy who cheats. NO EXCUSE! That doesn’t mean that every guy that you go out with is going to follow through with it. Healthy and stable relationships do exist. Try to look for examples from other couples, if you parents are still together or friends of your parents who have been together for years. You need to do what your ex couldn’t, be honest with yourself. Don’t let him ruin the best guy that could have been. Take if from Katy Perry, she let the one get away. When it comes to cheating, often said than not, “I need closure!” Three words for you….NEVER GONNA HAPPEN. It could stall your recovery because it keeps you in contact The guy who with him The sooner you cease contact the moved away: better you will be. Most of us at least want to try to salvage a friendship from the reFinding out that the one you spent so lationship, as long as the reason why you much time on and so much sex is movbroke up isn’t great enough to destroy ing away can really take a toll on you. the entire friendship as well. Not a good “We can make it work” is something idea either. that all couples say, but it n ??????)M??????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????)Q???????????)??????????????????????????????(??uQ???????????????????t???????)?????????????????)????????e????????????????????????)]????????????????????????????)???????q??????????t???????????)????????????????????????]I=9?)??????????????????????????????)????e???????????????????9???????)??????????????????Q??????????????)????????????????????????????????)???????????????????????????????)????????Q?????????????????????)???)?????????????????????????????)???????????????????$??????????)??????$?????????????????????????)Q?????????)??????????????????????????????)???????????)????????????)??????????????????)?????e??????????????????????) ??????????????????????????????)????????e?????????????????????)????????e??????????????????????)???????????????????????????q$)!???????????????????????e???????)????e???????t????????????????)?????????????????????????????)???????????? ????????5??????)e?????????????M??????e????????????????????????????????????????????)????????????????????????????????)??????????????????????????????????????)?????????????????=;?eP??Q?????????????????????????????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????????????????]??????$????????????)?????????????????$??????????????????????????qI?????????????????)???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????Q??????????)????????????????????????????????????????Q??????????????????????)e???????????????????????????????????????????????t?5????????????????????)?????????????????????????????????????????????????9????????????????)?????????????????????????q????t?????????????????????????????????)????????????????????????????????()%??????????????????)??????????????????????)????????????????U?????)??????Q???M??????)???????????????????)?????????????????????)????????????????)??????????????????????????????????????)???????????????????)?????????Q????????e?)??????????????() ???????)8?????((?()I%L((???((???()I%L((?() ???????)8?????((