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266 Aptavani-9 Please explain in detail, your inner state prior to Gnan manifesting within you in 1958. Dadashri: Yes, before Gnan manifested in me amidst the kashayas of krodha-maan-maya-lobh and raag-dwesh (the inner enemies of anger-pride-attachment-greed and attachment- abhorrence respectively), the force of maan was the most dominant. The rest of the kashayas were alive under the reign and domain of maan (pride). It was the reign of the maan and not of abhimaan (excessive pride). Abhimaan is maan with mamata, i.e. this excessive pride is associated with a sense of ‘my-ness’. The pride that I had was without mamata (my-ness). Questioner: What is pride without my-ness (mamata) like? Dadashri: ‘I only’ ‘I am something’ ‘I am something!’ that is what it is. Questioner: That is called mamata (my-ness). Dadashri: No mamata is something different. ‘This is mine’ is extra pride (abhimaan). ‘This is mine. What do you think of it? It is mine,’ that is extra pride. The extra weight that is given to the ‘I’ is pride maan. It is natural to have pride; there is nothing wrong with that. Extra pride (abhimaan) indicates attachment. Extra pride is the display of my-ness (mamata). Extra pride will be there only if there is my-ness (mamata). My- ness was hardly existent in me. Only this pride of ‘I am something’ was there and it was all wrong. One does not gain or attain anything from it. He simply has the belief of ‘I am something’. I am talking about my life before attaining Gnan. The other kashayas of anger-deceit-greed were subservient to this pride. There was no trace of mama