256 Aptavani-9
some positive result, when‘ we’ are convinced, then‘ we’ will place‘ our’ energies behind him otherwise those energies are used up in this lalacha and then they become a tonic for wrong use.
Therefore, it is worth instilling some energy when I can see he has attained some level of freedom from his kashaya( saiyam). Otherwise his current predicament is because he has been getting all the energies, is it not? I have come to this conclusion.
Questioner: But then you will tell him the ways by which he can benefit, will you not?
Dadashri: Yes, I will tell him the ways he can benefit. But if he ever does what I tell him, if he changes his ways with everyone at home, then he will benefit. Furthermore, he will not even have any shortage of money.
So first he has to realize and be convinced about his mistakes. Then his mistake will begin to be destroyed. Then intense inner spiritual endeavor( purusharth) of a focused nature has to be made. This mistake is not such that it will go away without purusharth. It needs tremendous inner spiritual endeavor( purusharth). Then this will give rise to an energy that is say twenty-fold. This twenty-fold energy is applied exclusively to remove this mistake. Then the inner energy will rise forty-fold, this is the benefit. Tremendous energy will arise in this manner.
Questioner: If he makes an inner intent( bhavna) that he definitely wants to stay in the Agna, will that give result?
Dadashri: One should remain in the Agnas, should one not? So he should deal with everything, with equanimity. Then everyone at home will say,‘ Dadaji, we do not have any complaints about him.’ Will it not show results within a month? The correct remedy will always give results. False remedy will have a result too. Therefore,‘ we’ say take care of those at home first; bring about some solution right there.