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have made that decision, the other person will not be hurt.
Therefore, you have to make that decision first.
This is how you attain oneness
One man asked me, ‘How can we get rid of matbhed
(separation due to differences in opinions) that constantly exists
in our home? Show me a way.’ I told him, ‘Adults have the
matbhed, not the children. Those who have ego and awareness
have matbhed. Therefore, the one whose ego has been
awakened has to say the following, five times every morning,
‘We are all one; there is no separation amongst us.’ Then
oneness will prevail the whole day if you make a decision in this
way and say it out loud together in the home. You have to repeat
it everyday; otherwise the energy of what you have charged will
run down. If there are three people in the home, all three have
to say the same thing.
Questioner: How can those who have differences
(matbhed) come to agree on this subject? What if they have
differences about this suggestion of yours too?
Dadashri: No. It is not like that. No, that is why you say
it if you want to avoid separation due to difference in opinions.
If you do not like the sense of separation, then you should all get
together and do what Dada has said. If anyone asks, simply tell
them, ‘Dada has told us to repeat this sentence five times
everyday, ‘We are all one; there is no separation amongst us.’
Say it five times. When you say it five times, it is possible for that
charge to remain for twenty-four hours. You have to repeat the
same thing the next day otherwise the energy will go down.
When you keep doing this, it will eventually materialize.
Do not encourage negative talk by listening
to others
Otherwise, the world is very different. Even when you
want to avoid separation due to differences at home, outsiders
will drive a wedge between you.