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However, you can only see them when you attain impartial vision, or if someone points them out to you and you examine them. Then that would be the scope to remove your obstinacies. However, if you see other people’s obstinacies, it is regarded as your own obstinacy. Your obstinacies will vanish the moment you start to see them. One becomes God when his obstinacies are completely gone. When a true statement that is satisfying to the heart is not accepted, that verily is the nature of obstinacy. Obstinate people behave according to their own opinions. Obstinacies end in those who behave according to the Gnani’s opinion. The finest qualities of the prakruti (the innate nature of one’s relative Self) are freely available to everyone on the path to liberation. These qualities are ultimate humility, extreme simplicity, spontaneous forgiveness, and total lack of obstinacy. These qualities can be regarded as measures of spiritual progress. To be aware of one’s own obstinacies is verily called awareness! Obstinacies may have lessened, however if one has ‘my- ness’ (mamata), then he is absorbed in the worldly life only. Whereas, if there is no ‘my-ness’ and if the subtlest obstinacies have ended, one will become a Gnani. The root of obstinacy is the ego. If a person has faith in the opinion of ‘people will only shape up if I sulk, remain obstinate, upset and non-communicative (risavu)’, then obstinacy will not refrain from manifesting in his behavior. If you become obstinate with the Gnani Purush, you will not get any support or encouragement from Him. There, in front of the Gnani, one has no choice but straighten out and shape up! Obstinacies succumb and bow down to the one who is 14