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Aptavani-9
Adjustment to save yourself
‘We’ have not seen many tragas but those that ‘we’ have
were unpleasant and distressing for all those who were around.
Questioner: So how do you feel when someone does
tragu in front of you?
Dadashri: ‘We’ would immediately recognize that she
has started a tragu.
Questioner: What do you do at that time?
Dadashri: ‘We’ do not give into her. Even if all of you
were to do a tragu, I would just sit here. You will get tired but
not me. I have become an expert at it.
Questioner: What kind of adjustment do you take from
within?
Dadashri: Unaffected! Without any effects whatsoever!
Let her do a tragu, she will get tired and go to sleep!
Questioner: But would she not do more tragu, Dada?
When she sees that you are unaffected, would she then not act
up even more to affect you?
Dadashri: Yes and ‘our’ internal state of being unaffected
will become even stronger! That is how much energy there is
within ‘us’. In what situations would ‘we’ let go? In situations
where the person is making a reasonable request or is having
reasonable feeling and emotion, but if she does it as a scare
tactic, then ‘we’ will not yield. Are you trying to scare me? Even
God is not able to scare me. Are you not ashamed? Are you
trying to scare the one who has pleased God in every way?
Some people do tragu in front of me, but they are minor
tragas.
Questioner: Then do you not say anything to her? Do
you just remain silent and sit unaffected?