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12 Aptavani-6 bhaav of ‘I want this woman as my wife’; there is no bhaav, no acquaintance or familiarity. He meets up with her according to the buddhi’s ashaya. Dravya, kshetra, kaad and bhaav are such that when there is a shortage of women, his buddhi’s ashaya will be, ‘I will marry any girl that I find, but I must find one!’ So he will find ‘such a one.’ Now he complains that she is like this and she is like that. Hey! You are the one who made such a choice so what are you complaining about? He feels discontent when he sees someone else’s beautiful wife. Nevertheless, he finds satisfaction only in his own home and he also says, ‘I will stay only in my own house.’ Nature is telling you, ‘You got what was in your buddhi’s ashaya, so why are you complaining?’ He complains when he sees someone else’s bungalow, but ultimately he likes his own hut. Buddhi’s Ashaya of the Ultimate Kind If his buddhi’s ashaya is, ‘I am tired of all this wandering around; it would be nice if I were to meet a Gnani Purush so I can find liberation,’ then he will meet a Gnani Purush. Now no one is likely to do such a buddhi’s ashaya, are they? How can people become free from this infatuation for the worldly life (moha)? The Doer of Pratishtha is Under External Control Effect, location, time and inner intents (dravya, kshetra, kaad and bhaav) are constantly changing. Whatever comes out of your mouth is all an ego, but you continue to do pratishtha (instillation of life) with that. This ego is not your doing either. Dravya, kshetra, kaad and bhaav make you do it. You can get rid of the ego when you receive Gnan from the Gnani Purush. Once the ego is gone, all pratishtha will come to an end. Then where will he go? He will go to moksha!