Aptavani-6 215
Dadashri: It will settle after ten days. It may not happen today due to the heavy force of the unfolding karma, but it will happen when there is less force. You don’ t have to lose your sleep over it. We are Shuddhatma; we have to deal with our‘ own’ affairs and welfare first, and then if someone is hurt by you, do pratikraman for it. You cannot afford to get involved with anything else. If the Gnani Purush were to do what you are proposing, when would everything be settled? How many such problems are there!
Questioner: You just said that we should not even have the intent( bhaav) to adjust with the other person. Does that mean that it is not necessary to become preoccupied( tanmayakar) with the intent of adjusting with the other person? Are you telling us that we should remain superfluous in the matter?
Dadashri: There are many kinds of adjustments. Some adjustments are not worth taking at all. Some adjustments are worth taking but there is no need to maintain even the intent for it. You simply have to‘ see’ what is happening. In doing this much, you will become free in just one lifetime. If you are left a little debt, it will be paid off in the next life.
In this you have to make sure that your mind does not go on turning and twisting( amde chaddhe). If there is any matter that causes your mind to turn and twist, then put a stop to it. If the mind turns and twists, first there will be the hurt( dukh) within, then there will be suffocation( ghabharaman), and then if it continues to twist further, worries( chinta) will arise. Therefore, before the mind takes off turning and twisting, You should put a stop to it. This is the level( of how you should approach it).
Questioner: This is what happens. When the other person is hurt, his mind does not attain closure( samadhan); it remains restless!
Dadashri: Samadhan or closure for both parties involved