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Aptavani-6 183 Are you saying, ‘I am in pain’? Pain is in the ‘relative,’ not in the ‘real.’ It is falsely projected (aropit) upon the relative as being real. Through a wrong belief, you have believed pain to be where it is not. When you say, ‘I am hurting,’ then the pain, which is only twenty-five percent in intensity, becomes one hundred percent. Questioner: I became one with the body, the self. So, instead of twenty-five percent, I feel a hundred percent pain. Dadashri: The whole world believes and knows, ‘I am Chandulal,’ that is, they believe their relative-self to be their real Self. But you have now learned the interaction (vyavahar) of separation. Questioner: But now if I say, ‘Chandulal has pain,’ will that twenty-five percent pain remain as twenty-five percent? Dadashri: Yes, it will not increase. Otherwise, it will become one hundred percent. People are not aware and, therefore, they increase their pain by describing and discussing their pain with others. Do people not worry constantly? There is a limit to worrying. Not everyone is a Gnani, that they have no worries at all. But should there not be some rules or principles about this? How long can you go on worrying? Worry means to keep contemplating (chintavan), ‘What will I do now…what’s going to happen now…?’ Here, God is being disgraced; nature is being disgraced. Then where is such a thing as justice? One cries when a two year old child dies, he cries when the twenty-two year married son dies and he cries when a seventy-five year old man dies. Hey, you! What understanding do you get from all this? You have no understanding at all of when to cry and when not to! Questioner: I have never used the intellect in this manner