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him, then ask for his forgiveness nicely, “My friend, I am sorry
that I was wrong. I am such a fool. I have no sense.” And so
his scars will begin to heal. A person likes it, when you criticize
yourself, and that will heal his scars.
If you want to be happy in life, then don’t do tarchhod
(to spurn with contempt) towards anyone! Who are you doing
tarchhod to? To God Himself! As God resides in every being.
The insult does not reach the person: the insult reaches God!
God takes the results of everything in the world. Therefore, do
things that He can accept, and that do not make you look bad
in His eyes. It is not possible for anyone to attain moksha by
spurning even a single living being with contempt (tarchhod).