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Aptavani-2 159 Dadashri : These mistakes verily are the results of demerit karmas (paap) from the past life. But one does not destroy the mistakes in this life and continues to increase them. In order to destroy a mistake one has to first recognize and accept that it is a mistake. Moreover, he cannot protect it. This is the Gnani’s key that can open all the locks (solve all problems). We are bound by our own mistakes. If the mistakes are destroyed, then one is parmatma (Supreme Self). He who has no mistakes is a parmatma. What does a mistake tell you? ‘You need to know me and recognize me.’ Ordinarily people think of their mistake as a positive attribute and this leads to the mistake ruling over you. But if you recognize it as a mistake, it will run away from you. Instead, people fail to recognize their mistakes and on the contrary, they protect them, so they feed their mistakes. Protecting mistakes Questioner : Dada, how does one protect a mistake? Dadashri : If you scold someone and then say, “He needs to be scolded, he would not understand otherwise”, the mistake will realize that you have not recognized it and on the contrary, you are protecting it, so it will remain where it is and enjoy the ‘food’ you give it. Protecting your mistakes just once will extend their life by ten more years. You should not protect any of your mistakes. There is no stubbornness in ‘us’. If someone were to show us ‘our’ mistake, ‘we’ would accept it immediately. ‘We’ would tell him, “Yes sir, ‘we’ thank you for showing ‘us’ our mistake.” You should be thankful to the other person that he pointed out your mistake, which you could not see yourself. Tremendous energies can arise within you, if you can realize twenty-five or so mistakes everyday. In order for you to