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What is that like? Chaos?
Organized chaos! The pool parties are amazing. In the summertime, the pool is full
– 40 people tossing around beach balls at midnight. It’s glorious and beautiful that
time of night. Everybody makes friends. Some people are shy, but we have a social
hour every night to try and introduce people and help them get to know each other.
There’s this really great energy at the resort all day long when we’re sold out. It’s
why so many come back.
‘There’s confusion in the marketplace that clothing-optional
equals sex vacation’
I wanted to bust some myths around clothing-optional resorts…
There’s a lot of confusion. Bathhouse-style resorts, where you’re not really paying
for the room, you’re paying for the sexual activity: that’s not us. The majority of gay
resorts in Palm Springs are not that way. But because there are three prominent re-
sorts that are; that have day passes, and their average stay might be 45 minutes…
Our guests sometimes stay 45 days!
There’s confusion in the marketplace that clothing-optional equals sex vacation. It
couldn’t be further from the truth. If someone’s looking for that, we’re happy to refer
them. We want people to come and be happy. But I don’t want someone to come
to a sex resort and think we’re all like that anymore than I want someone coming to
my hotel looking for a sex resort and being disappointed.
‘There’s no ageism that I see’
Is it a myth that it’s mainly older guys who stay?
It’s guys of all ages, but it does skew to a higher age level. That’s primarily because
guys who are older have a little more money. They’ll have more time away from
work, or if they’re retired, they can come and stay for a long time. We have plenty
who check in for more than a month.
Guys in their 20s take weekends off and drive here from LA and San Diego; if
they’re going to come for a full week, it’s a big part of the vacation budget they get
every year. So financially, it drives the age higher. But men of all ages enjoy being
around other gay men on vacation.
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