Applied Coaching Research Journal Volume 1 | Page 46

APPLIED COACHING RESEARCH JOURNAL 2018, Vol. 1 Going beyond goals Coaching Inside and Out helps people take a step back, look at their situation from different perspectives and realise they have choices. After that we ask the same questions I’d ask you: “Where do you want to start? What do you want to change?” Coaches then explore three core areas in response to the individual’s needs: • Who are you? (Your strengths and values - good coaching) • What do you want to change? (Reaching your targets - goal coaching) • How are you holding yourself back? (Challenging your assumptions - great coaching). Stretching out – another string to your bow? What if you went beyond improving a person’s performance and experience of sport and physical activity to help improve their experience of life and effect on others more broadly? Your role perfectly positions you to bring in mind coaching in a way that challenges and supports people as and when they are ready. Sport and physical activity coaches can, and do, reach out and use their skills and knowledge everywhere that people are physically or socially excluded; bringing all the physical and mental benefits of playing and participating to both individuals and society. Great coaches also improve by learning about, and stretching, themselves along the way. We only coach for a small period of time and some might wonder “what difference could I possibly make?”, but it can take just six seconds to ask a great question that shatters someone’s illusions for life. It’s best to have many tools in your bag though, to avoid the pitfall Maslow spotted: “I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail.” So how can you pick up the tools of “great” and “good” coaching, not just “goal” coaching? Goal coaching may be the simplest form of mind coaching that helps people get where they want to be, but goals aren’t always the best place to start. Goals were beyond our very first male client in the community. He’d been released from prison, had alcohol problems and felt he’d never had any Clare Balding with the author in HM Prison Styal gym 46 If mind coaches can help top sportspeople smash records, then how might you help those you work with shatter their assumptions and achieve more than they’ve even dreamt of? We all hold ourselves back in different ways and we can create our own prison walls by assuming we can’t do things, by thinking we aren’t worthy of success or by hiding who we really are.