Anger 11
Dadashri: No, but why do you not get angry in this situation? It is because you do not see anybody there. Who will you get angry with?
Questioner: But no one has thrown the stone.
Dadashri: And if you were to go out now and a little boy throws a stone at you, you will get angry with him. Why? Because you believe that the boy threw the stone at you. However, if a stone rolls down a hillside and hits you, you will look around but you will not get angry.
You become angry because in your mind you feel that a person is responsible. No one is able to hurt another person knowingly. Whether a boy throws a stone at you or whether a stone accidentally falls on you, it is essentially the same thing. It is an illusion that makes you perceive that someone is responsible for it. In this world, no man has the independent power over even his own bowel movements.
We do have control over anger. When we realize that no one has thrown the stone that falls from the hillside, we do not get angry. And when you say,“ Anger overcomes me,” it really does not. If it did, then why do you not react in the same way when a stone fall on you? Why don’ t you get angry when a policeman tells you off, yet you get angry with your wife, with the children, with the neighbors, and with those working under you? Why don’ t you get angry with your boss? Anger does not just happen to people. People get angry because they want to have their own way.
Questioner: How can one control it?
Dadashri: The control is present. Recognize that the person who throws the stone at you is merely your nimit( someone instrumental) who is bringing to you, the effects of your past karma. When you see a stone falling from a hill, your anger does not arise. In the same manner, here too you should