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49 Aswathi Kozhikode Female Infanticide K illing infant girls is something most of us cannot imagine. As shocking and disturbing as this behavior is, however, we must look at in within its cultural context. In some Indian communities there is a preference for male children. This attitude is rooted in a complex set of social, cultural and economic factors. Daughters will require a sizable financial dowry in order to marry. This dowry system, lack of economic independence, social customs and traditions has relegated the female to a secondary status. Because daughters leave their families of origin, they are often regarded as temporary members of their families and a drain on its wealth. There is an expression in India that -bringing up a daughter is like watering a neighbor‘s plant-. In most of such cases of female infanticide the culprit is the mother of the infant. It‘s reported that female infanticide existed in India since 1789 in several districts of Rajasthan and Gujarat. The female infanticide was so widespread in jadeja (Rajput) families of Kutch and saurashtra, that only five of such families were found who had not killed their newborn daughters. Poverty, ignorance of family planning, cost of dowry etc have been reported as the possible causes for this crime. Females were not only aborted before birth but also victims of inequality after birth. Girls are discriminated against with regard to nutrition, medical attention and general care as compared to male children. Son preference has become daughter hatred in recent decades due to widespread legalization of this form of violence against newborn female infants. sI kXy-_m_p I®qÀ Pohn-X- Xmw-_qew apdp-¡n-¯p-¸nb Nmdn Rm³ I|p, Fgp-¶p-\n¡p¶ ]pI-bn-e-¯|v Acªp Xocm¯ Ce-¸-¨-¯p-|v. \qdp-sXm-« shän-ebpw \pdp-¡nb AS-bv¡bpw \qsäm-¶m-hÀ¯n Nh-¨-t¸mÄ I|p., ]¨-Po-hn-X-¯nsâ Nph-¸v. Iq«n-¡n-gn-¨v sh«n-¯n-cp¯n hSp-¡-fp-W-§m¯ Pohn-X-¯nsâ ]n¶nb Xmfp-Ifn \n¶v ]ng¨ IW-¡p-IÄ Igp-¯n ssIap-dp-¡p-¶p, Hcp-Ñzm-k-¯n-\mbn IpXdn Rm³ Imdn-¯p-¸n-bXv tNmc-tbm, PohnXw NXª Nmtdm?! ! =