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ADULT CHILDREN "You’d do anything to help them, but maybe 'anything' is not the best. " WAYS TO KEEP YOUR ADULT CHILD FROM MOVING BACK HOME BY SCOTT & BETHANY PALMER - THE MONEY COUPLE CONGRATULATIONS! YOUR "baby" graduated and is out on his or her own. You hung in there with them through tough professors, bizarre illnesses, and the drama of supremely annoying roommates. But, unfortunately, that high-priced piece of paper doesn’t seem to be the golden ticket they thought it might be. And there’s talk of them moving back home. If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. Pew Research Center found, 53 percent of 18 to 24-year-olds still live with their parents or move back in with them, at least temporarily. That’s over half! You love your kids, of course ... you’d do anything to help them, but maybe “anything” is not the best. Life beyond the bubble of campus is difficult because college isn’t the “real world”. They need to make their own way and skin their knees. But what if they’re struggling and call home to see if their room is vacant and their sheets are washed? Don’t panic. >> 9