Akram Youth Fear | June 2016 | Akram Youth | Page 17

Emotional Support (Hunf) of the Gnani WARMTH (hunf) of Other Humans A newly elected minister, with an important portfolio, was very happy to be elected during his maiden election. However his PA was happier than him on his getting elected. The minister could now exercise power, and this corrupted his PA's mind. The PA became more arrogant, egoistic, not very friendly to the public and behaved as if he was the minister. He enjoyed a luxurious lifestyle, all thanks to the minister. The PA dared to behave in such a manner, only because he had the support (hunf) of his minister. All interactions of the public with the PA were going to waste, because no one dared to go against this highly influential minister and his personal assistant. It so happened that the minister was defeated by his rival candidate in the next election. The minister's failure shocked his assistant. Now he could no longer usurp power under his minister's protection (hunf). All the comforts and vanity had vanished in a second. A shadow of fear constantly lurked on his back, for now was payback time for him for the misuse of his master's powers (hunf). Temporary hunf provides Temporary gains: Beware! Questioner: Every man needs emotional support. For example, At home, as long as the father is with his child, the child feels safe. Otherwise the child experiences fear. Dadashri: Emotional support itself is hunf. Everyone needs hunf. If the son has hunf from his parents, his life goes smoothly. If that support is gone, he searches for it outside. In the absence of hunf, one becomes restless. As long as one does not become fearless, he searches for hunf. Questioner: Can a person who gets the Gnani's hunf, be free of all external support (Niralamb)? Dadashri: Yes, sure! That is the way to become free from all external support (Niralamb)! The whole world searches for hunf. It is the basis of peoples' lives. A wife requires her husband's hunf. A daughter also needs her husband's or her father's hunf. Everyone needs it. If one has to sleep in his bungalow alone, he calls for someone to stay with him overnight. Now, if someone comes to beat him, then do you think that this person will save him? In fact if his friend is a coward, he will let him get beaten up.. But still, he likes hunf. The 'Jeev' (the relative self) itself is searching for hunf. The Gnani Purush gives tremendous hunf. The Gnani is the only one who doesn't need hunf. A Gnani is Niralamb (free from all external supports). Others take His support, but He doesn't need anyone's support. He is totally Niralamb. Akram Youth | 17