AIM # 3 JAS 2017 | Page 5

Issue 3 What’s HoT? Explore JAS 2017 I. Explore Head or Tail The Marshmallow Experiment Imagine riding a car without brakes, full speed. Living without self-control is much like riding without brakes, if not worse. Renowned psychologist Dr. Walter Mischel, in 1960s setup ‘the surprise room’ at Stanford University’s Bing Nursery School. The surprise room hosted A baby throws food, she is supposed to many pre-schoolers for what was to eat, on the floor. A toddler throws become the iconic ‘Marshmallow Test’. tantrum in supermarket, One pre-schooler at a rolling on the floor and time, was brought in the screaming for a candy. A surprise room (an empty child throws away his small room with just a basketball as he just desk and chair). Dr. cannot get it through Mischel’s research the basket. A teenager assistant would then throws a rave birthday offer the kid one party because all her marshmallow (or any The Marshmallow Test friends did so. An other treat the kid adult throws away his preferred) but would quickly give another New Year resolution within weeks of option. The kid could either eat the making it. Such examples are so marshmallow immediately or wait for 15 common that we hardly notice them. minutes in the room, not eating the While the baby’s action is normal for her marshmallow, and be rewarded with one age and stage, it will be eventually self- more marshmallow. destructive for her to grow up with (and not grow out of) her impulses. Several researches prove that self-control (also known as delaying gratification and will power) is critical to living a successful and fulfilling life. What’s more? It can be mastered over time. Parents, time to throw hat in the ring for self and children. So the kids had a choice; to eat one now or to wait for 15 minutes and get to eat two marshmallows instead. A few kids did not even wait for the researcher to leave the room and ate the marshmallow instantly. But some kids survived the torturous 15 minutes in a room with little else besides a marshmallow that they must not eat. 5