Aged Care Insite Issue 114 | Oct-Nov 2019 | Page 35

clinical focus This resource doesn’t get too far into that because to be able to help someone with that, you do need some time and space. That’s where the spiritual care practitioner role really comes to the fore. This resource sits alongside of that. It’s really about giving people some general time and space and not being afraid. So if they do start to ask some things, you are open to letting them speak. If they’re really starting to express some distress around those things, that’s where the staff are encouraged to refer. That’s part of the resource, as well as helping them to be aware of other channels for other kinds of support for the person. It also invites some reflection on cultural rituals or certain things that people might need to have in the space around them, to be able to support them to die well. All of that is based on what’s meaningful for people, which is of course the heart of spirituality and spiritual care. Some people might baulk at the word ‘spirituality’ – thinking you’re bringing religion into it, which some people might not be interested in. Can you explain what you mean by spirituality? around their level of confidence and their ability to accompany people around the spiritual side of dying. People do start to ask some big questions about their life, and it’s really important that staff aren’t afraid of that and don’t skirt around the issues or try to shut them down or try to avoid them altogether because they know that the person might say something that they don’t know how to respond to. For the patients, is it about getting them past fear? Does it include preparing the families for this? Yes. For the person who is preparing for the end of their life, what we’re really hoping for is that their death will be as good as possible, but that varies a lot depending on the person. There are some common themes that come up for people, which is around the need for reconciliation, the need to say thank you and the need to ask for forgiveness or offer forgiveness. Spirituality is a term that can often be misunderstood. I think we’re improving as a community and certainly in the aged care sector, but we’ve still got a way to go. In the past, it was assumed that spirituality was all about religion, but we can’t make that assumption anymore. If you look at the international literature, there has now been a lot of research to try to explore and explain this aspect of life. The major themes that come up are around meaning, purpose and connectedness in people’s lives and then connectedness with ourselves, with others, with creativity, with nature, and with some sense of something bigger than ourselves. For some people, absolutely they’ll have a faith, they’ll have a religious tradition, and that’s all interwoven with that. But for others they don’t. Everyone has a spirituality; not everyone has a religion. I’ve interviewed death doulas or end-of- life doulas and they also talk about this. Would you see a space for those people in aged care? Yes. I think that if an organisation has a spiritual care practitioner, then quite often it will be able to do the kinds of things that death doulas are doing. However, if an organisation doesn’t have a spiritual care practitioner, then it may want to explore having a death doula involved in the care system alongside the other support roles. I think it’s so important that there are people around who are able to explore these things and support individuals with this part of the ageing journey. Is part of this helping to avoid ambiguity for people’s end-of-life plans? It is. And if there is a religious component, well what should that look like and what does that mean? Really, best practice spiritual care is all about understanding what’s most meaningful to that person regardless of any labels that they might be carrying. Just because someone’s ticked a certain box for a certain religion or not, we can’t then assume that we know exactly what that means in their life. We need to explore it with them, which is why it’s important to have those discussions well before the person is actually about to die, so they’ve got that chance to reflect and explore and express, and the team around them has time to prepare and know what sort of things need to be in place. This brings us to the other resource, which is the implementation tool that relates to the National Guidelines for Spiritual Care in Aged Care. The national guidelines for spiritual care in aged care have 50 different outcomes and actions, and this is one of them. But it’s actually a kind of meagre outcome. It’s got lots of different sub-components that all relate to these things around preparation for end of life, but it’s not so much the pointy end, if you like. It’s stepping back a number of months, if not a couple of years, before that where it’s talking about letting people reflect on their life contribution and legacy, affirming their worth, identity and uniqueness, helping them to explore unresolved issues, and also advance care planning, and so on. Are these tools and resources available to any aged care facilities who might be interested? In their entirety, they are freely available to our members. To be a member of Meaningful Ageing Australia, you need to be providing support, care and/or accommodation to older people. We’re a growing group nationally. We are publishing excerpts from them later in the year to be able to provide some more access to organisations that aren’t members.  ■ agedcareinsite.com.au 33