Adviser Update Fall 2013 | Page 11

ADVISER UPDATE PAGE 11A h❤me no place like By Ellen Austin W FALL 2013 Ellen Austin is the News Fund’s 2012 Journalism Teacher of the Year. She is the director of journalism at the Harker School in San Jose, where she advises the yearbook, newspaper and online publications. She chairs the Student Press Law Center Steering Committee and is a JEA Northern California board member. She can be reached at [email protected]. BLACK P01.V52.I4 teacher, the main thing I hoped for (and prayed for more than once) was that this very talented and bright young man would survive to reach the vibrant and happy adulthood I knew was waiting for him. And thankfully, he did. You can see some of his work in Vanity Fair and Harper’s now.   Over a pint of cider, Rick mentioned how glad he was for me and other teachers in his school who had taken a stand against those who bullied or taunted kids like him.   I asked Rick whether he thought a young man growing up now in Cannon Falls would have the same challenge and sense of danger and isolation that he had faced a dozen years ago.   He thought for a bit and said, “No, because kids growing up queer now have the Internet – and with the Internet, it doesn’t take you long to figure out you’re not alone anymore. You find the ‘It Gets Better’ videos [a heartfelt project championed by Seattle columnist Dan Savage] pretty fast.”   Rick faced bullies in a bricksand-mortar hometown. He didn’t expect the town to be shut and locked: he just expected us to try to keep it safe.   Perhaps that’s how we need to start seeing social realms: it’s a “hometown” for a generation, with the great ways of bringing people together, and also the potential for harm. It’s part of our job to help keep it safe.   We all need a tribe, and we will search until we find a safe place to call home. I’m grateful that a classroom and a camera led me to mine. CYAN someone who isn’t your favorite person and who has the potential to trash talk you. For adults over 30 or so, this probably brings to mind an actual recallable party in the past, and the actual face of a frenemy.   You keep a close eye on that person during the party, to check on what’s potentially being said about you. You wouldn’t say you’re being “addictive” or “paranoid,” but rather socially savvy in guarding your reputation.   Move the cocktail party to the world of thumb-driven and instantly disseminated messages online. If your reputation could be maligned and torn down in 30 minutes of vicious status updates, comments, and sh \