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ABUSE Magazine Photo Sources: capitalregion.ynn.com Photo Sources: www.telegraph.co.uk teen attending camp to learn new skills and ways of approaching family conflict, and family members doing their own work at home. There is no better way to make constructive use of free time than learning something new – a new skill, exploring an unfamiliar place, meeting new people. Therapeutic wilderness programs offer a unique opportunity for troubled teens to explore the wilderness on foot, learn primitive life skills, and participate in challenging group activities. When stripped of the comforts of home, like television, computers, and video games, teens connect with themselves and others on a deeper level. Wilderness camps emphasize responsibility, self-awareness, teamwork, and communication, and challenge teens to achieve their personal best. Teens are introduced to a new group of peers and learn to relate to people of all backgrounds. They live in a structured, highly supervised environment, which helps teens gain perspective on life at home and build self-confidence and hope for a brighter future. If summer camps and wilderness programs aren’t right for your teen, consider getting him or her involved in volunteer work. Animal shelters, halfway houses, nursing homes, churches, homeless shelters, soup kitchens, and other organizations can keep teens occupied while developing a sense of purpose, self-confidence, and personal responsibility. In addition to teaching teens the joy of giving back, volunteer work looks great on college applications and resumes. Another activity to keep teens busy this summer is a part-time job. Many parents find internships or small tasks for their children to do at their place of employment, or you can help your teen apply to local grocery stores, restaurants, retail stores, local car washes, or pet care facilities. Teens can also earn extra money babysitting, doing yard work, house-sitting, and other odd jobs. Part-time work helps teens budget, make friends, comply with authority, develop a strong work ethic, and learn the value of a dollar. Of course, keeping your child busy for the sake of being busy, in and out of day camps, sports, and miscellaneous activities that don’t really have an impact on their lives, can be as disastrous as doing nothing. Your teen may rebel against the cluttered schedule and seek out more interesting people and places on his own. Your money would be put to better use in a summer camp with a clear, focused goal, such as a wilderness camp or weight-loss camp. Parents who are seeing early signs of behavioral or emotional problems in their children have an excellent opportunity to get their kids back on track during summer vacation. Waiting to address these issues until the summer has started or problems become serious would do a disservice to your teen. Start talking with your teen at least a month before the start of summer vacation to make plans, reserve a place at camp, and coordinate schedules. Don’t just get by this summer, counting down the days until September. Wasted time is a wasted opportunity. A bold and exciting summer vacation can be a lifechanging time of continued learning and personal exploration for teens. We are proud to support gun safety & responsible gun owners in our community. Tom’s Gun Shoppe 894 S. Seminary St. Galesburg, IL 309-342-0044 Mercer County Coroner Aledo, IL 309-582-7756 “I am proud to support ABUSE prevention in my community!” Rock-N-Roller Rink “We are proud to keep our kids skating towards a drug free future. We care & get involved.” 405 N. 11th St. • Monmouth, IL • 309-734-8045 abusemagazine.org | Illinois Spring/Summer 2013 | 17