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ABUSE MAGAZINE Photo Source: artiedavis.com • Required vision signed January 24, 2013 • Governor Jay Nixon of Missouri Signs Erin’s Law July 14, 2011 • Governor Daniels of Indiana signs Erin’s Law April 11, 2012 • Erin’s Law passes New York Senate 55-1 April 30, 2012 • Erin’s Law passed in Maine in May 2012 • Erin’s Law signed by Michigan Governor Snyder January 2013 • Erin’s Law is currently being introduced and voted on in 11 states 2012-2013 Growing up in Illinois public schools every year I was educated with my classmates on tornado drills, fire drills, bus drills, stranger danger, and learned the 8 ways to say “NO” to drugs through D.A.R.E. As a child I never had to take cover because of a real tornado. I never had to stop, drop, and roll or run out of a burning building. I never had to evacuate a school bus due to an emergency, but I had the knowledge to know what to do if any of those situations happened. Where was the drill on how to escape a child molester? Where was the lesson plan on sexual abuse, safe touches, and safe secrets? It never came. I was not educated on “How to Tell Today or How to Get Away.” I was never educated on “My Body Belongs to Me.” When a grown man lay on top of me at 6 1/2 years old and threaten to tie me to a bed if I did not lay still and be quiet as he raped me or when my teenage cousin locked me behind closed doors and warned me, “this is our little secret, no one will believe you, this will destroy our family” as he sexually abused me on a bed I stayed silent and lived in that silence alone. When I was raped and sexually abused as a child I did not know what to do. I was confused and scared. My body seemed to belong to the men that used and abused it was the message I learned, because I was getting no other message. It is my mission to pass Erin’s Law in all 50 states and I won’t let anything stop me. Children are waiting on us to give them a voice. The voice I didn’t have as a child. 15385 620th Ave. Roland, IA 1-800-662-4642 504 6th Ave. Sully, IA 1-800-469-1040 “We are proud to be a drug free workplace” 515-233-0033 409 Douglas Ave. - Ames, IA Auto Trim, Audio & Accessories “Accurate Auto is a proud supporter of prevention programs for our youth!” 402 E. Lincoln Way - Ames, IA 515-232-2060 abusemagazine.org | Iowa Fall/Winter 2013-2014 | 25