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ABUSE MAGAZINE Photo Sources: www.publicsphereproject.org Photo Source: www.wbur.org “Where Growing is the Nature of our Business” We are proud to be a drug free workplace, and we proudly support our youth in their efforts to remain drug free! get it handled…right? Well again, nobody ever told me that Gonorrhea and Chlamydia (the two most common STD’s for high school students) have no symptoms most of the time or that you can still get herpes or HPV if you use a condom. The no symptoms part is what burned me the second time. A couple of years later I was dating a great guy, we were taking things slow, but eventually we did get together. A few weeks later he broke things off and started a rumor that I had given him chlamydia. I got tested just to prove him wrong and found out that it wasn’t a rumor. I did have chlamydia and I have had it for some time; burned again. I got treated and was grateful that I didn’t have something worse. That was a pretty dark time in my life; I definitely was in agreement with the two out of three sexually experienced teens who wish that they would have waited longer before having sex. I found out later that depression runs so high in sexually active teens that doctors are being advised to automatically screen sexually active patients for depression. My one good thought was that at least I was done being burned by that stove, but that wasn’t the case; not yet. Fast forward a few years. I finally met “the one” and we were married and eventually we wanted to have kids. I did have a positive pregnancy test a couple of times but each time it was an ectopic pregnancy (yes it’s a real thing, you can Google it). At one point the doctor actually asked me if I have had chlamydia, I told him yes, but that I had been treated. He said the damage to my fallopian tubes was a result of PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) and that I was part of the unlucky 15% who become infertile. Long story short, I can’t have kids; big big burn. There are so many “if only” moments in my life when it comes to love, sex, and STD’s. If only I had waited. If only I had been tested. If only someone had told me. That last one is the reason I tell my story. Today, in the next 24 hours, more than 10,000 teens will find out that they have an STD. If you have had sex, please get informed and get tested, even if you don’t have any symptoms. If you have not had sex yet, please do yourself, your future self, your future family a favor and wait. You won’t be alone. 57% of high school students have not had sex yet. Your future partner for life deserves to have all of you and not have to share you with anyone in your past. Don’t let touching a stupid beautiful stove decide how you can or can’t live your life. Get informed, get tested, and get peace of mind. Sumner Municipal Light Plant “We are proud to LIGHT the way towards a drug free future!” P.O. Box 267 - Sumner, IA 563-578-5611 1685 Independence Ave. Waterloo, IA 319-232-3954 Life Is Good! Iowans for L.I.F.E Defending human life since 1972 www.Iowansforlife.org [email protected] 800.727.2435 facebook.com/ IowansForLife twitter.com/ ChildnotChoice “We are proud to be a drug free workplace & support our Iowa youth!” 333 Rock Island Ave. - Waterloo, IA 319-235-6411 We are proud to be a drug free workplace! Warren Transport, Inc. 210 Beck Avenue Waterloo, IA 50701 800-526-3053 www.warrentransport.com abusemagazine.org | Iowa Fall/Winter 2013-2014 | 13