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STOP Internet Predators Photo Source: todaysmama.com STAY SAFE ONLINE Jim’s Carpet One 3557 5th Ave. South - Fort Dodge, IA 515-955-2207 We proudly support the fight for a drug free Iowa! Amenities WiFi Kitchenettes - Laundry Microwave/Refrigerator Air Conditioned Rooms Coin Laundry Direct Dial Phones Wireless Internet “We are proud to be a drug free workplace.” 300 1st Ave. Fort Dodge, IA 515-576-2191 “Kids invest in your future by saying no to drugs and remaining college bound.” 635 1st St. - Webster City, IA 515-832-1133 IOWA AUTO SUPPLY 412 1st Ave. South - Fort Dodge, IA 515-955-1414 “We are proud to support our youth in their efforts to remain ABUSE FREE!” Internet Safety for children is something I find very important. A staggering number of children, over 5,000 every year, are kidnapped, sexually assaulted, and even murdered, after meeting someone in a chat room. My mission and purpose is to provide parents with the resources to help keep their children safe online. Eight Tips to Help Your Child Avoid Online Predators It is so important to educate our children about the dangers associated with the Internet, specifically, Online Predators; being knowledgeable about the tactics used by these predators, will go a long way to ensuring their personal safety. Here are eight tips to keeping your child safe online: 1. Establish limits - Tell them which websites they are allowed to visit. If you don’t want them visiting Social Networks, then explain this to them, alerting them to the dangers involved. Most teens love these Social Networks and that is usually one of the first things that a teen will do when they have access to a computer, but Social Networks are a major hunting ground for Internet Predators, and they need to understand that. 2. Surf with your Child - Spend some time understanding the types of places that interests your child and see if you feel that it is safe for them. Do you know a safer site for them, suggest it. 3. Show them how to keep their personal information private - Kids don’t understand the dangers involved when they share their personal information and that is when we need to make sure that they are safeguarding all of their personal information. Real name, 10 | Iowa Fall/Winter 2013-2014 | abusemagazine.org phone number, address, email, school information, and gender should not be identifiable. Internet Predators look for children of certain ages, gender, etc; therefore, they unknowingly make themselves targets. 4. Know who is contacting your child - Who they are talking to online? Do they frequent social networking sites, forums, or play any type of online games? These are all places with chat capabilities and they may have come across a predator and are not even aware of it. Who is on their Buddy list? Ask them to show you. If you have ANY reason to believe that your child may be talking to people that they shouldn’t, then please see the products listed in the “Internet Safety Products “section. There are products that can give you a snapshot of the pages your child is frequenting, passwords, keystrokes, chat logs, and you can restrict access to certain websites. They can give you peace of mind. 5. Ask your child if they have been approached by anyone that made them feel uncomfortable - If there is someone that stands out in their mind, someone who was particularly disturbing, they may feel the need to tell you. I say that they “may” tell you, because your child may be embarrassed of the encounter, or feel that they are in some way responsible. Explain to them that although the Internet can be a great learning tool, it also has a downside; sick individuals whose sole purpose is to prey on the innocence of children. 6. Alert them to the dangers of a faceto-face meeting with someone they have only met online - Thousands of Source: http://www.luvnbigd1.blogspot.com/