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CHILDREN WHO BULLY BULLYING: Midgley-Huber 208-362-1670 Inc. We are proud to support our Future Leaders in their efforts to remain drug free! 5766 W. Albatros Street - Boise, ID oscar’s automotive Mercers Repair 208-629-3643 Proudly supporting our IDAHO youth. We care and get involved! 9586 W. Bethel Ct. - Boise, ID We are proud to support preventative education for our youth. We care and get involved! Children Who Bully Bullying among children is aggressive behavior that is intentional and that involves an imbalance of power or strength. Typically, it is repeated over time. Bullying can take many forms such as hitting or punching (physical bullying); teasing or name-calling (verbal bullying); intimidation through gestures or social exclusion (nonverbal bullying or emotional bullying); and sending insulting messages by e-mail (cyberbullying). There is no one single cause of bullying among children. Rather, individual, family, peer, school, and community factors can place a child or youth at risk for bullying his or her peers. Characteristics of children who bully Children who bully their peers regularly (i.e., those who admit to bullying more than occasionally) tend to: • Be impulsive, hot-headed, dominant; • Lack empathy; 8151 West Rifleman • Boise, ID • View violence in a positive way. Family risk factors for bullying Licensed Full Service Listing & Sales-Short Sales, Foreclosures, 203K Rehab, GRI, CRS, Relocation Specialist, CPS, CCPM, (Certified Corporate Property Management) Larry & Rose Cada Stevens are proudly supporting the ABUSE Prevention Magazine and all of their efforts to prevent ABUSE in our schools! “We Support our Community!” Children and youth who bully are more likely to have friends who bully and who have positive attitudes toward violence. Common myths about children who bully ‘Children who bully are loners.’ • They report having an easier time making friends than children and youth who do not bully. • Have difficulty following rules; and Boys who bully tend to be physically stronger than other children. AARealtorsBoise.com Peer risk factors for bullying • In fact, research indicates that children and youth who bully are not socially isolated. • Be easily frustrated; (208) 377-2700 Photo Source: www.straitstimes.com Children who bully are more likely than their non bullying peers to live in homes where there is: • A lack of warmth and involvement on the part of parents; • Overly-permissive parenting (including a lack of limits for children’s behavior); • A lack of supervision by parents; • Children and youth who bully usually have at least a small group of friends who support or encourage their bullying. ‘Children who bully have low self-esteem.’ • In fact, most research indicates that children and youth who bully have average or above-average self-esteem. • Interventions that focus on building the self-esteem of children who bully probably will be ineffective in stopping bullying behavior. • Harsh, physical discipline; and • A model for bullying behavior. Management & Maintenance Apartments, Multiplexes, Homes & Association Management (Subdivisions) 28 | Idaho Spring/Summer 2014 | abusemagazine.org Source: http://www.education.com/reference/article/Ref_Children_Who_Bully/