On the Lighter Side
by Rajan Govinden
How to
understand
Women
You work on logic, she
works on emotion.
This is not to say that women are illogical or don’t use logic in every day situations – often their thoughts and ideas
are better articulated than their male
counterparts.
The point I’m trying to make here is
We have all met women
who seem to be more
complicated than
Chinese algebra.
At aBrMove we’re all
about helping the guys.
But sometimes advice
from one dude to another
can only go so far.
It doesn’t matter
what you say, it
matters how she
feels.
A woman’s honesty to herself is unparalleled, because her self-esteem is
rooted where it should be, in herself.
You can call her beautiful or sexy or
gorgeous every single day, but if she
doesn’t feel it, it won’t get through to
her.
You need to make her feel all of these
things, and more. In fact, what you
Women are meant
to be loved, not
understood.
don’t say usually matters more than
what you do say. As the saying goes,
actions speak louder than words.
that a woman’s emotions will influence
her actions more than a man’s would
for him.
As men, society teaches us to keep our
feelings hidden, so we don’t acknowledge them as much, and therefore
don’t act on them as women do.
It has always been seen as a negative
for a man to be in touch with his ‘feminine side,’ but when people say this,
they’re typically referring to someone
who is more in touch with his own
emotions.
Women will naturally gravitate closer to
men like this, because they feel they will
be better understood.
Hint: Women, this also means if you
want your man to know how you feel
about something, you need to tell him.
But, I do think that as men, we over-
He may not be able to read it on his
complicate women because we expect
own.
them to be just like us.
It’s natural for anyone to project their
own qualities onto others and become
confused when they don’t fit the mould,
but once we step outside of ourselves
and see people as they are, and not
as we are, our vision becomes clearer.
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• logistics in action • october 2014