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   Part 5 The road ahead By reading this booklet you have shown an interest in giving up alcohol. This is the beginning. It’s now up to you to turn these ideas and suggestions into action that’s right for you. Although change may not be easy, you can succeed. The extent to which you succeed in becoming a non-drinker will depend largely on your willingness to plan ahead and change your lifestyle. Leave things to chance and you’re likely to fall into old habits. With genuine commitment, you can be a successful non-drinker. There is a companion booklet in this series called Maintaining the change. This booklet is written for you, whether your recovery is going well or not so well or hits the disastrous. A slip, a relapse, a disappointment: keep going. Pick yourself up, dust off the experience and carry on. If the going gets tough, remind yourself to take one day at a time. Winston Churchill was talking about his bouts of depression when he said, “When going through hell… keep going.” That can hold just as well for the low times of stopping drinking. Success will come when you have built up new interests that you enjoy and rebuilt old relationships. These will replace any gap you feel when you first stop drinking. If you continue to have problems even after putting these ideas to work, you may need some extra help. Speak to someone who understands the difficulties of becoming a non-drinker, and you’re more likely to find out where things have gone wrong. Your doctor or local alcohol and drug service should be able to help. Never give up. Keep your eye on the person you want to be: for you, for your partner, for your children, for your grandchildren. No matter what your problem, help is always available.