single goal or design you desire for your life is all just about the pursuit of your happiness.
So if you desire happiness, you have to give up negativity; you can’ t be truly happy and still harbour negativity … When you look at it like that it is impossible not to conclude that you can’ t have both. I suppose if you really wanted to‘ try’ and push the point then you could be happy sometimes and negative another. But that is just your ego saying I don’ t like being told I’ m negative. Get over it, have the life you desire, or stay negative and be one of the 99 % who never get there- it really is your choice. Well, now I’ ve made you aware of it, it is. You had the same choice before but when you chose negativity you were not the thinker, as no sane person would choose that over happiness. The next time you say or do something negative, simply go inside and observe why. Don’ t judge though... just observe why.
So with that in mind, anyone who has entered the world of the people studying‘ the way’( the personal development / self-help world) should surely have found that there is no place for their negativity … To have not done that would mean certain problems to come, and also of course that they have completely missed the point!
However, if you are still intent on clinging on to your negativity then don’ t make a judgement one way or the other. Just become the watcher; sit silently and watch your ego’ s handling of simple situations that come along. See how your ego is constructing your arguments in such a way that now that you are looking at it, they are clearly insane.
Do not‘ try’ to just change, just continue to watch them and see them for what they are. Become fully aware of them and just as turning on a light destroys darkness, so your ego’ s control over your mind will be destroyed by letting your consciousness observe its bad behaviour.
When you are ready then you will realise that all negativity will need to be cut out of your life. As negativity is a disease which spreads from a very little start, it can cause massive changes of thought. You don’ t need to force this and I am not going to tell you that you must cut out all the negativity. You’ ll figure that out when you finally attain the understanding that you cannot create the life you desire and allow negativity into your life.
There’ s no rush to change, just stay present and look for negativity, as when you identify it you weaken it. As you weaken it, it strengthens you. Just observe and stay observing. I studied positivity and success a lot and observed that negativity is not present in the successful people as there is no room for it. Whereas the unsuccessful‘ believe’ it makes them more. The only benefit I found
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