55+ Living Guide Magazine Spring/Summer 2018 Spring 2018 | Page 26

Kathy Gottberg is an author with six published books and hundreds of articles covering dozens of topics in the last 30 years. Along with her books, her passion today is SMART Living 365 where she explores ideas and experiences that help to create a meaningful, sustainable, compassionate and rewarding life for herself and others. Beyond that, she lives with Thom, her best friend and soul mate of 40 years, along with their dog Kloe. Visit Kathy’s informative & popular blog at www.smartliving365.com 9 Positive Views on Aging What You Think About Aging Matters! By Kathy Gottberg Henry Ford supposedly said, “If you think you can’t—you can’t. If you think you can—you can.” While that statement usually applies to reaching our goals or persevering in spite of the odds, we seldom consider it in context with aging. Yet, growing research shows that our view of aging has a sometimes dramatic effect on the quality of our health, happiness, and wellbeing. Not only does what we each think about aging matter, how we feel about aging as a society influences the experience that each of us will have as the years add up. Fortunately, if we can learn to identify those stereotypical prejudices most of us hold about aging, we can halt and maybe even reverse many of the negatives formerly believed to be our destiny. I’ll bet there isn’t a person alive in our country that hasn’t heard a good joke lately about a senior citizen. Facebook is full of funny photos and captions showing older people as buffoons. Just about every situation comedy on television portrays elders in a negative light. No wonder none of us ever want to grow old! Is it possible we do ourselves a tremendous disservice every time we pass those cartoons around or laugh along with others when another senior is the butt of a joke? That’s what Becca Levy, an associate professor of psychology at the Yale School of Public Health and lead author of a current study on aging, believes. She is convinced that such negative stereotyping is a “public health issue.” Ultimately it is possible that such a constant cultural mindset perpetuates an 26 age-based stereotype threat (ABST), along with a prejudice and discrimination that are nearly as insidious as those surrounding racism or gender inequality. The good news is that during the last 20 years a growing number of studies clearly demonstrate that what we think about and how we feel about aging changes the outcome of our lives. 9 POSITIVE VIEWS ON AGING 1.) A positive view of aging gives a person a 44% more likely chance to fully recover from a severe disability. 2.) Believing that aging offers opportunities for continued growth, rather than a decline or social loss, results in better subjective health, higher income, less loneliness, and greater hope. 3.) When trained in positive age stereotypes over the course of several weeks, participants began feeling more positive about their own aging self- image, resulting in improved physical functioning. Even more interesting is that when the training and messages were offered subliminally, rather than explicitly, the outcomes improved nearly 30%.