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You are going to make some incredibly constructive and life altering changes as you
learn to be alone, discover your ultimate goal in life, the things you should never say to
your ex, and how to start dating again, even if you know you want your ex back.
There is no magic wand that will put everything back the way it was five years ago, but
why would you want one?
The way things were ended in a breakup. We can do better.
And with the right mindset we will.
The Breakup of the Century
I’m married today but don’t think for a second that it was a fairy tale romance. My
husband and I had as tumultuous a relationship as you can imagine.
It started sweetly enough. Him standing there in a cheesy button down shirt asking to
buy me a drink.
But, after a few months, things started to turn sour. I LOVED this man, but for whatever
reason, he was pulling away.
First, it was the “sorry, I forgot” excuse, then “I have plans” and finally he didn’t even
bother. He just ended things.
I was beside myself.
I had never loved this strongly or felt this kind of need and it was devastating. I
wallowed. I cried. I ate....
It was a long month, but then I came across some advice from a relationship genius
who said what I had always been determined NOT to hear.
“It’s not about him.”
The relationship. The loneliness. The FEAR that he would move on and I wouldn’t. It
was all a cover for something else, for my NEED to be in that relationship - to be
defined by a man.
What the hell was I doing?
I was letting myself fall to pieces over one human being. A man who SAID he didn’t
want to be with me. I wanted him back more than you can ever imagine, but I decided
then and there that pining and sending text messages and trying to run into him on the
sly were the wrong tactic.
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