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/ 202 SPOTLIGHT / East Valley Breast Cancer Resources With 1 in 8 women (and a small minority of men) diagnosed with breast cancer, it will affect everyone. FIND SUPPORT: Share experiences and empathy. Check out groups like Bosom Buddies, with local groups meeting in the East Valley. Visit bosombuddies-az.org. Bodour Salhia, her daughter and mother at last year’s Komen Phoenix Race for the Cure. That’s because the fight against cancer is all about joining forces in the face of something you don’t understand. That’s where Salhia’s “other side” comes in – she loves getting out in the community to learn more “about the people, not just the molecules,” and at the same time, she’s become a resource for people struggling to understand cancer. Salhia says she has always volunteered, but connecting with others has become especially important since she began her breast cancer research. “It can get abstract, even for me. I want to be reminded constantly why I’m doing this.” While she’s getting to know those dealing with cancer, Salhia offers survivors and their loved ones information. She’s given several talks and seminars around the East Valley and Phoenix area, and has even been available through personal references and phone calls to offer what she calls “Cancer 101” to people overwhelmed by the disease. “I’m not a medical doctor and I don’t ever give medical advice, but sometimes people just really want to understand,” she says. “I’m always impressed by how much people do know about their cancer. They can’t really see it unless they’re in a lab, so sometimes they don’t understand it – and why would they?” Salhia hears even more about cancer patients’ experiences through her volunteer work with charities like the Susan G. Komen Central and Northern Arizona affiliate, which recently appointed her to the board of directors and for which she’s served as a community outreach ambassador for several years. Komen CAN, which operates as an independent affiliate, spends 75 percent of its income to support efforts locally. The partnership started as Salhia was the recipient of those funds Komen raises – she received a grant to research breast cancer. She stayed with them as she got further involved in community outreach and efforts like informational presentations and the Race for the Cure. “I love talking with people. Sometimes it just takes one person to kick start the conversation, but people want to understand,” she says. “When people connect to people and that connection stays alive and grows, it just means that people care about each other.” DETECT IT EARLY: Starting at 50 (some doctors say 40) yearly mammograms are advised, and can aid early detection and treatment. Visit Arizona Breast Cancer Resource Guide at azbreastcancer. org for local screenings or financial assistance. TRY THIS AT HOME: As the local “Don’t be a Chump, Check for a Lump” campaign urges, self exams are a good way – in addition to regular medical checkups – to monitor your health. Learn more at checkforalump.com. 202 magazine \ october 2013 \ ? ?XY?^?[?K???B?????